how to live with reluctance about life...??

me:
 Its really hard for me to know the reason of our life.

We just get life..live life ..tolerate lots of things and enjoy so many things...and lose life ..one day.

What is the aim of our existence?

I have seen through out my life.. I have felt ..people indulged too much in materialism ..they never want to know about spirituality and its importance.

They just want to get everything and want to consume as much they could ...

what is life.?? 

I am not getting it.....

Please scholars put yore views ....

I think everyone who is living their life is a scholar for me now here..

somebody :

Yet I understood yore view.

I think you are saying that.. one should fulfill their responsibilities.

One should live like a bird..... who lives their life with no resistance , no reluctances.

me :
you want to say that we could fulfill our responsibilities by making our child capable to live on.

At last our child will leave us.

..May be they will hurt us..

It’s human's tendency to expect.

well..

(inform me ..if I am not getting yore point..)

about that bird u are saying..

That Bird is flying over the continents..

lets assume

that bird is in cage.. 

Then what that bird can do..?

How the chick will learn to fly before it's mum throw it out of nest ...??

we are humans..and we live in society.. and our elders made rules..just for giving us at-least a status..

but today..

we are following those rules n customs like blind people..like sheep’s..

That we don’t know the reasons of our doings our customs..but we follow them blindly..

Its really pessimistic to accept that our hands are tied..

we cant do on our own....

(I am writing some lines in hindi..hope u can understand..)

आप और में चाहे कितना भी discuss कर ले ,अकेले तो शायद संभव नही कुछ कर पाना

we can just make ourself agree to accept them, to understand them.

एक पक्षी सा जीवन जीने की समझ ला पाने के लिए भी ये जरुरी है की पूरा समाज उस उद्देश्य को समझे और अपने जीवन में उतारे |

क्या हम उनके जीवन जीने के तरीके पर प्रश्न कर सकते है?

Can we teach our parents..??

Can we ask them for let us go ?

Can we say them that don't expect anything from yore child??

I asked to my grand ma that why we live life..

why we give birth to a child who gives tensions whole the life..

what she said..

she said ...as long we were able we used to take care of ourselves..

but now we get old now we cant can’t walk own my own.

I can’t worry for my self..

I have given mine from my side..

now I am just waiting for god's call for my soul.

till then ..

its yore responsibility to take care of me ..if I am not capable for it.

its yore wish..that u do for me or don't.

(don’t we know that how much they have done for us..

They used to awake for us ..

They didn’t thought bit before expending their hard earned money expending on..

They could keep that money saved for appointing servants for taking care.

But they ever thought for their child only..

Then …

How we could say them for living like a bird who throw their chicks out..)

...

Those lines of my grand ma ,made me speechless..brought tears in my eyes..

..

now say...

what we can say to our parents..?

how we can make them understood??

How we could live our dreams without hurting our parents..??

नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को , कुछ काम करो , कुछ काम करो |

जग में रह कर कुछ नाम करो , यह जन्म हुआ किस अर्थ अहो  

समझो जिसमे यह व्यर्थ न हो , नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को|

संभलो की सुयोग  न जाय चला , कब व्यर्थ हुआ सदुपय भला |

समझो जग को न निरा सपना ,पथ आप प्रशस्त करो अपना |

अखिलेश्वर है  अवलंबन को , नर हो , ना निराश करो मन |

जल- तुल्य निरंतर शुध्ह रहो , प्रबलानल ज्यो अनिरुद्ध रहो |

पवानोपम सत्कृति - शील रहो ,अवनि- तल - वृत धृति- शील रहो |

कर लो नभ सा शुची जीवन को , नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

जब है तुममे सब तत्त्व यहाँ , फिर जा सकता वह सत्व कहा ?

तुम स्वत्व सुधा रस-पान करो , उठके अमरत्व विधान करो |

दव रूप रहो भव-कानन को ,नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

निज गौरव का नित ज्ञान रहे , "हम भी कुछ है" यह ध्यान रहे |

सब जाए अभी पर मान रहे ,मरणोत्तर गुंजित गान रहे |

कुछ हो न तजो निज साधन को ,नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

प्रभु ने तुमको कर दान किये , सब वांछित वास्तु विधान किये |

तुम प्राप्त करो उनको न अहो , फिर है किसका यह दोष कहो ?

समझो न अलभ्य किसी धन को ,नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

किस गौरव के तुम योग्य नहीं , कब कौन  तुम्हे सुख भोग्य नहीं ?

जन हो तुम भी जगदीश्वर के , सब हे जिसके अपने घर के |

फिर दुर्लभ क्या उसके मन को ? नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

करके विधि -वाद न खेद करो , निज लक्ष्य निरंतर  भेद करो |

बनता बस उद्यम ही विधि है , मिलती जिस से सुख की निधि है |

समझो धिक् निष्क्रिय जीवन को ,नर हो , ना निराश करो मन को |

-मैथिली शरण गुप्त 

Mother..... incomparable

Happy mother’s day

I am in the habit of a stimulant.

Using it I feel like heaven.

Until I am in its impact...

I feel like I am tied with something and

I want to get free from this world…

I feel like my life is going on with speed…

I feel peace...

I could feel only its smell, its voice…

I feel I have borne to consume it only...

But...

As I keep that away...

As I go far from her...

I feel like my life is going…

Everything is stopped…

Something pushed me forcefully in to this world…

Somebody hammering nail in my heart…

My body is broken in to pieces…

All is going to finish...

All is sinking...

I am going to lose everything....

...

...

There for ...I want that stimulant for all of my life…

Don't want to stop taking that...

That stimulant is you Mom...

That stimulant is her pure… sweet… soul healing Touch…

That is her lap...

That is her company...

I miss her here so much...

                                           - Daughter

दोस्त

ना ज़मीन, ना सितारे, ना चाँद, ना रात चाहिए,

दिल मे मेरे, बसने वाला किसी दोस्त का प्यार चाहिए,

ना दुआ, ना खुदा, ना हाथों मे कोई तलवार चाहिए,

मुसीबत मे किसी एक प्यारे साथी का हाथों मे हाथ चाहिए

,

कहूँ ना मै कुछ, समझ जाए वो सब कुछ,

दिल मे उस के, अपने लिए ऐसे जज़्बात चाहिए,

उस दोस्त के चोट लगने पर हम भी दो आँसू बहाने का हक़ रखें,

और हमारे उन आँसुओं को पोंछने वाला उसी का रूमाल चाहिए,

मैं तो तैयार हूँ हर तूफान को तैर कर पार करने के लिए,

बस साहिल पर इन्तज़ार करता हुआ एक सच्चा दिलदार चाहिए,

उलझ सी जाती है ज़िन्दगी की किश्ती दुनिया की बीच मँझदार मे,

इस भँवर से पार उतारने के लिए किसी के नाम की पतवार चाहिए,

 

अकेले कोई भी सफर काटना मुश्किल हो जाता है,

मुझे भी इस लम्बे रास्ते पर एक अदद हमसफर चाहिए,

यूँ तो 'मित्र' का तमग़ा अपने नाम के साथ लगा कर घूमता हूँ,

पर कोई, जो कहे सच्चे मन से अपना दोस्त, ऐसा एक दोस्त चाहि

ishvar

कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,पर उसको ढूंढना है अपने अन्दर झांकना होगा,

तू दर उस वक़्त से जब दूर तक तू भागता होगा,तेरे कर्मों का साया तेरा पीछा कर रहा होगा,कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,

किसी के लब पे जब भी जिंदगी से कुछ गिला होगा,तो साईं और उसके दरमियाँ इक फासला होगा,कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,

उधर दुनियाँ की भट्टी है इधर साईं की ठंडक है,उधर जाओ इधर आओ तुझे ये सोचना होगाकोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,

तेरे रब से कोई नेकी बुराई छुप नहीं सकती,कोई देखे न देखे पर वो सब कुछ देखता होगा,कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,

न जाने कब कहाँ वो खोल दे रहमत के दरवाज़े,मगर इसके लिये दिन रात तुझको जागना होगा,कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,मुक़मल ज़ात है उसकी मुक़मल आस रख उस पर,उसी ने दर्द बांटे हैं वो ही तेरी दवा होगा,कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,

कोई तेरा नहीं बस एक साईं आसरा होगा,पर उसको ढूंढना है अपने अन्दर झांकना होगा

lines....from core of somebody's heart

lines ....from core of somebody's Heart..

From the moment we first met there was something I felt a pinch in my heart that day, I promise to myself you, only you that I shall keep.

I did things just to be closer for us to become lovers. I have thrown my pride in the name of love. I chose to be by your side.

through the years I tried to keep what we have. I kept on holding on so tight through hardships, against all odds all for us, I already did.

instead you despised me talking behind my back even to my closest friends that’s what you have done you made me soak in pain.

I began to hate life, created a world so dark, I became the bitter one, I chose to be alone and embraced loneliness

why did you hurt me so bad?all I ever wanted was to be loved. Why did you stab me in the back? and tell me, you want me back..!!

leave now, please let me find my old self keep those empty promises in your pocket.

i really wish

Once I Got Hurt Its Not Easy To Win Me Again

I wish I could give you my pain,So you can feel the things I do.Just for one day.

I wish I could give you my eyes,So you can see all the fears I do,Just for one day.

I want you to walk in my place for one day,To hear what I hear,To see the world the way I do,To be me just for one day

Maybe then you would really understand,That it isn’t easy,Being me.

If you were to spend just one day as me,All your colours would be taken away,

If you were to be me for just one single day,You would know then why I fear the things I do,Why I am the way I amWhy it hurts to smile and why,It feels like weakness to cry.

And you would know why the smallest things,Make so much difference to me,The few words to tell me I will be okay,The few words that say,I am never alone.

At least,If you spent one day as me,You could go back to being you again,It’s not that easy for me,I’m here as me all of the time,For a lot more than,Just one day.

Importance of girls in a male's life.

>Why Do Boys Need A Friend Who Is A Girl ??? 

BECAUSE: 

-She Will Never Leave U Alone When U are Sad... 

-She Will See To It That U Do Ur Works On Time... 

-She Will Make Sure U Don't Skip Meals To Play Matches&Do Work... 

-She Will Ask U To Leave Ur Bad Habits Everyday, Every Time... 

-She Will Fight With U On Small Matters, Bt Won't Keep D Anger For Long... 

-She Will Make You Money-Wise... 

-She Will Say: Don't W0rry, Even If There's Lot To Worry Or Nothing To Worry.. 

-She Will Make You Punctual... 

-She Will Help You Restrain Ur Anger... 

-She Will Talk To U 15 Times A Day To Know What U're Doing... 

U Might Feel Bugged At Times, Bt Truth Is That You Can't Do Anything Without Her... As Girls Are Special Gift Of GOD For Boys... 

So Realize Their Worth And Take Care 0f Them... 

Dedicated To All Girls and Boys Who Share The Love And Friendship..