how to live with reluctance about life...??

me:
 Its really hard for me to know the reason of our life.

We just get life..live life ..tolerate lots of things and enjoy so many things...and lose life ..one day.

What is the aim of our existence?

I have seen through out my life.. I have felt ..people indulged too much in materialism ..they never want to know about spirituality and its importance.

They just want to get everything and want to consume as much they could ...

what is life.?? 

I am not getting it.....

Please scholars put yore views ....

I think everyone who is living their life is a scholar for me now here..

somebody :

Yet I understood yore view.

I think you are saying that.. one should fulfill their responsibilities.

One should live like a bird..... who lives their life with no resistance , no reluctances.

me :
you want to say that we could fulfill our responsibilities by making our child capable to live on.

At last our child will leave us.

..May be they will hurt us..

It’s human's tendency to expect.

well..

(inform me ..if I am not getting yore point..)

about that bird u are saying..

That Bird is flying over the continents..

lets assume

that bird is in cage.. 

Then what that bird can do..?

How the chick will learn to fly before it's mum throw it out of nest ...??

we are humans..and we live in society.. and our elders made rules..just for giving us at-least a status..

but today..

we are following those rules n customs like blind people..like sheep’s..

That we don’t know the reasons of our doings our customs..but we follow them blindly..

Its really pessimistic to accept that our hands are tied..

we cant do on our own....

(I am writing some lines in hindi..hope u can understand..)

आप और में चाहे कितना भी discuss कर ले ,अकेले तो शायद संभव नही कुछ कर पाना

we can just make ourself agree to accept them, to understand them.

एक पक्षी सा जीवन जीने की समझ ला पाने के लिए भी ये जरुरी है की पूरा समाज उस उद्देश्य को समझे और अपने जीवन में उतारे |

क्या हम उनके जीवन जीने के तरीके पर प्रश्न कर सकते है?

Can we teach our parents..??

Can we ask them for let us go ?

Can we say them that don't expect anything from yore child??

I asked to my grand ma that why we live life..

why we give birth to a child who gives tensions whole the life..

what she said..

she said ...as long we were able we used to take care of ourselves..

but now we get old now we cant can’t walk own my own.

I can’t worry for my self..

I have given mine from my side..

now I am just waiting for god's call for my soul.

till then ..

its yore responsibility to take care of me ..if I am not capable for it.

its yore wish..that u do for me or don't.

(don’t we know that how much they have done for us..

They used to awake for us ..

They didn’t thought bit before expending their hard earned money expending on..

They could keep that money saved for appointing servants for taking care.

But they ever thought for their child only..

Then …

How we could say them for living like a bird who throw their chicks out..)

...

Those lines of my grand ma ,made me speechless..brought tears in my eyes..

..

now say...

what we can say to our parents..?

how we can make them understood??

How we could live our dreams without hurting our parents..??